The number of men coming out of the closet and declaring their sexual orientation is rising because, according to Mwangangi, society is increasingly allowing men to be who they really want to be. “Everything comes out eventually every deceptive foundation has an expiry date,” Faith said.In a hotel room in Las Vegas, a barefoot man in a red tracksuit is frantically searching through his luggage. He checks the closets and drawers without success. When he comes back a few seconds later, he tells me that we have a problem.